How NOT to treat an INFP

I swore I'd never do one of these but what the fuck, here goes:
Don't: be fake with them. INFP personalities are most comfortable when they know people, so that they can get along with others more easily without getting anxious about stepping on toes. If you tend to hide your feelings, don't be surprised if your INFP friend stops talking to you. They just don't know how to read you, and won't try at the risk of pissing you off.
Don't: assume you know them, and don't tell them shit about themselves unless they ask you. Nobody knows an INFP better than they know themself. Chances are whatever amateur psychoanalysis you have to offer them is something they've already figured out about themselves time and time again.
Don't: ignore them if you're mad. Again, INFP personalities are most comfortable when they know people. They can read people well, but don't like to just assume they know what's wrong because they will assume the worst possibilities. Open, honest communication is always essential.
Don't: guilt them into talking to you or going out. INFP are introverts by definition and they will communicate/go out on their terms. As well, they are sensitive to their friends' desires as they are people pleasers, and exploiting this is manipulation that they will see right through. Pushing will make them uncomfortable and they may stop talking to you altogether.
Don't: tell them their goals are unrealistic. INFP are idealists by definition and no matter how unrealistic their goals may seem to even them, a bigger part of them still believes it's possible. Telling them otherwise will not help them "wise up," it will only cause them to sort you into a box labeled "people who have no faith in me."

mbti-gifs:

INFP introducing themselves

howtotrainyouramerica:

Ew I had to do this on my iPad but here it is

sandwichesandsideburns:

Does this count as my dash doing a thing?

annashenanigans:

israphels:

that post about the turkish oil wrestling

just mmm

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don’t look at me

TIA. DID YOU KNOW THAT THIS WAS A THING BECAUSE I DID NOT AND NOW I AM FEELING CHEATED HOW HAS THIS BEEN A THING THAT I DID NOT KNOW ABOUT
naughty-chekov

How didn’t you know about this

Erotomania- a type of delusion in which the affected person believes that another person, usually a stranger or famous person, is in love with him or her. The illness often occurs during psychosis, especially in patients with schizophrenia or bipolar mania.  During an erotomanic psychosis, the patient believes that a “secret admirer” is declaring his or her affection to the patient, often by special glances, signals, telepathy, or messages through the media. Usually the patient then returns the perceived affection by means of letters, phone calls, gifts, and visits to the unwitting recipient. Even though these advances are unexpected and unwanted, any denial of affection by the object of this delusional love is dismissed by the patient as a ploy to conceal the forbidden love from the rest of the world.[2]

The term erotomania is often confused with “obsessive love”, obsession with unrequited love, or hypersexuality (see nymphomania). Obsessive love is not erotomania by definition.

fy-perspectives:

Help! - The Beatles

hissouthernisles:

hissouthernisles:

I tweeted Tyler Jacob Moore like a loser.

pancakeradio:

Avril Lavigne | Girlfriend
The Best Damn Thing (2007) 

omg did the guy reply back?

Facebook says he hasn’t seen the message yet but he friended me and apparently his relationship status is hidden to strangers cause he’s

got a girlfriend